Sorry

I sometimes wonder and feel sorry about the word sorry. Ohh, did I blow your mind? I’m sure I did. The reason for saying that I felt people don’t understand the importance of word sorry.

Let me tell you something, why are you sorry? to whom you are sorry and for what you’re sorry. I think these are some basic fundamentals one should understand before using it. I mean sorry is the expression about how much sad you are for the part that happened to someone you love or anybody. You can be sorry to anybody you feel, you hurt knowingly or unknowingly. But apart these or there may be some beautiful definitions about sorry, people use them as a weapon or just as a situation escape.

“I’m sorry”…. and yes here they blamed directly or indirectly to take the guilt part on you and just accept that it was all your fault. My friend being sorry is not the acknowledgment for anybody’s fault, it may be yours or maybe anybody. You don’t need to acknowledge instead you should feel, and this is where we lack.

Sorry is an emotional attachment as well when I’m being sorry I mean that. Sorry is about taking the responsibility that yes you accept and I think there’s nothing shameful about it but an act towards bravery. There can be a lot of emotions attached to the word so better not to use it.

People not only blame sorry on you but they play it wisely with you and I don’t understand why? To such a transparent word why are we putting so many layers of fake emotions? It can be simple either you are or you are not. How can it not be so simple?

I think there are lots of things we should consider even before speaking this word. Let not this word be a misconception of using the word but feeling the word.

Would love to hear your suggestion on word Sorry…. And I’m sorry if this was a long read for you and trust me I mean that.